You spend time scooping up their shit. The LEAST they can do is like you, right?

First off, some cats do not like cuddling. Some cats will never ever be “cuddlers.”

More importantly, some cats get OVERSTIMULATED easily.

What is overstimulation in cats?

Your cat might not show affection in the way you expect. I know it can be disheartening when your cat doesn't appear to have a strong bond with you. They have individual personalities and can be more reserved in their affection compared to dogs.

• Here are some steps you can take to build a better relationship with your cat:

Remember that building a strong bond with your cat is a gradual process, and it may take time for them to warm up to you. Patience, respect, and understanding are key to fostering a more positive and affectionate relationship with your cat.

Here are some resources I think will help:

Great Catspectations

The KEY to a Better Relationship with Your Cat!

How to Pet a Cat - Cat Petting 101

You’re Petting Your Cat All Wrong!